Thanks Edz, I don't 'need' to do anything right now - I'm not going under financially. But I guess I partly feel a bit stupid that I haven't taken more steps to protect myself financially.
I feel we are in limbo money wise and everything is 'on trust' ATM. We still have a joint account, which I'm not paying into and H said I am welcome to use. I have occasionally used it, but very little, and I've stopped now he has lost his job. I just realised my joint account card expired at the end of Feb. Will be interesting to see if H forwards the new one from our MH!
In actual fact, I could go on for a good while longer - certainly for another 3/6 months - and longer if I chose to pick up some more freelance work...I just feel we should get things settled sooner rather than later - who knows what he may be up to with the remainder of our assets (which I know little about....just makes me nervous - although he's generally prudent with money.) But he's currently wayward, so who knows....
I just feel so conflicted about it - and it's ridiculous really. I feel I'm pretty strong in some other areas of our sitch - I don't know why I'm being so unassertive about it really. I guess I'll just give it some more thought and act when I'm really sure - if I ever get to the point of being really sure!!
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
