Wonka I like the answer made me laugh. So she called me today complaing to me like im one of her girlfriends. Saying that the OM told her that sat she is on her own. He has friends where they are going and will be hanging out with them so she will have to find something else todo. I was like really this isnt sending up red flags for you. This is getting almost comical. She asked me what I thougt as a friend and as a man. so I said its one of two things one: he's getting tired of you and is exploring to find someone else (because this is his old stomping grounds) or two: he already has plans to hook up with someone and doesnt want you to be there. I said either way for me as a man it sent up a lot of red flags.