Strangeness continues ... bet that has never happened here... lol

W called, she told me she was scared, he neck is bothering her, she is sad, she was crying ... emotional all that. I for the most part just tried to listen and understand her between her sobs. A few days ago when we were discussion S and his issues I explained to her that his issue with being in the car would be only for a month longer, she forgot I was moving. She asked about our dog (This has been trending lately... past 2-3 weeks) now for the past year and a half she did not seem to care, but the past few weeks she has at times shown remorse for abandoning him. She asked about him and I shared the place I am at allowed dogs, I told her it did but only 25 and over ... she was concerned I calmly just told her I am figuring it out and its something I will just have to deal with.(He is a very old dog and I think it will be fine .. just concerned as he is going blind and has been barking at nothing lately.)
So the call was her telling me she was scared, and that she was thinking of Tommy (the Dog) and she did not want me to put him down (Not sure where this came from, he is blind and deaf but still hanging in there) then she really started crying saying she could not live with herself if I put him down after everything she has done. I just listened... she told me she should not be talking to me, should not be sharing ... hung up the phone balling.
Later I get a TM asking "What if Tommy stays with me for a bit?" I did not reply ... first impulse, ummmm no... my dog sorry, you walked on him and me while you lived it up. But that's the angry little boy in me... honestly he is my dog, she can deal with the guilt with whatever means she can find. I am keeping my dog.

Her spin cycle seems to be in high with her in pain and all alone in her condo.


M: 48
W: 47
M16 T26-S8
BD Sept13