As an addendum, the C said something interesting in session this week. W was expressing frustration at how long it was taking to get OM out of her system. The C said that relationships and the feelings they spawn are either being fed or starved. If they are not being fed, then they wither. Unfortunately that's what we allowed to happen to our M. We're trying to feed it now and hopefully resuscitate it. On the flip side, it was also working that way for my W and OM. The longer they go without communicating, feeding that R, then it'll eventually wither and die. I knew this, just never heard it put that way.
Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood
