That is exactly how I took it. I just shrugged it off and laughed about it. Luckily this convo was not in person or she really would have been angry, watching me smile and laugh! I guess what Cheating spouses don't realize is when something this traumatic happens in most cases the farthest thing away from the thoughts of the betrayed spouse is getting in the sack with another person. Hell I know I am broken, why would I want to exacerbate that even more. Kind of sad but I guess it is their coping mechanism. And hey whatever makes her sleep better at night; I know I am not losing any sleep over it, I know who I am and what I am and am not doing!