I was surprised at how much it helped not to talk about our R all the time. I was afraid that we would be sweeping things under the rug. But no, it's done a lot for both of our stress levels. We're trying to keep our R talks confined to MC now and I think it's helping. W even said that it was a good session. I was starting to get a little frustrated with the C, but she was much more clear and direct this week. That and the fact that W and I actually allowed each other to talk instead of using our session to argue might have helped just a bit :-)
W said in MC this week that she didn't feel like she had been in love with OM as much as she was in love with the validation he provided. Her rhetoric lately has been more about trying to figure things out in her mind and improving herself. May just be talk at this point but she's always been an "emotions on her sleeve" type of person.
Unfortunately OM comes to town next week. She hasn't said a word to me. I'm not going to say anything either; I want to see what happens.
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Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood
