Wife says she's out the door

[Sherman333]

So after the weekend, I was preparing myself mentally for things to continue going badly. I got setup with a counselor (1st appt Friday 13th... funny) and started looking at finances.

I've even been thinking about the "what-ifs" of finding a better mother for my son, a more patient person, etc. I've even been strongly considering pulling the trigger myself. When things are good they're good, but when they're bad they're bad. With her there's been a bit more bad times.

So she calls me on her way home from work and wants to chat... I was cooking dinner and used that as an excuse to get off the phone with her. She came in and after a few minutes she gave me a big hug/kiss and told me that she really appreciates all the changes I've been making. That for the first time in a long time she has hope for us.

I find this pretty amazing that after I was a POS the day before... it's a 180 for her. I expect that her behavior will revert shortly. I don't think she values me most days... but there's a glimmer every once in a while.