M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
Hey, V. I am guessing that you know how hard it is with in-house separation more than me. I could not continue it and it is much easier now, (for me) without H in the house. He and I both own this house that S and I are living in, and while I am currently paying the bills here, he and I will still have to work all the financial aspects out at some point. Hang in there with whatever you are dealing with. Your H's ignorance is disgusting, though.
I'll admit to having a little fantasy where V drives up in her little red car, looking happy and just generally rocking it...smiling at H, and saying, "Peace, I'm outta here. Good luck to you, I certainly tried, but I intend to live my life with someone who values me. Or at least not like this."
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
M 53 W 44 D25 D20 S22 PA 10/95 BD abt 2k EA BD 9/2004 PA D'd 1/05/05 DB'd 9/2004-08 PA ends 02/2005 XW rehab 03/2005 piecing until OM3 June?/2005 Remarried 12/28/07 BD 12/18/14 Sep living together
Still nothing lady V, you ok? Can you ping us so we know you're doing allright?
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
Yes v I've stopped biting my nails now and moved onto bfts and I know what she does with those paws....ewwwww
Seriously v just an ok all fine will do for us
Last edited by edz; 03/03/1502:03 PM.
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
I am rooting for you, V. I miss your sweet, charming, funny posts, but I think of you often. Hang in there!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids