So I am going to tell her. "W you are more than welcome to come stay at the house to spend time with (friend). But I will not be leaving the house it just doesn't work for me and my sitch right now. If you decide you are going to stay know that there are a few boundaries that must be followed. OM will not be at the house with/without me there. And I will not tolerate you talking or texting him in front of me. If you can respect these boundaries then we will be good, I will respect your need for personal time with (friend) as well. If you overstep thesee boundaries I will have to ask you to leace.
