Thanks Ahoy - I hear you and I would probably give someone in my position the same advice - but I am going to say something. My kids are young enough that they don't really understand the whole living with a girlfriend thing and a lot of this is very confusing to them. Sure - they will figure it out years from now - but in the meantime I'd rather not have them think that Mom hates Dad or that we fought all the time. I make a lot of effort to not badmouth him in front of the kids.
I'm calm now. I'm going to wait another day and then all I'm going to do is repeat what D6 and ask if it is accurate. If he says that it is - I'm just going to ask that he stick to what he knows when he talks to them - not to speculate about what my feelings might be and to stick to the truth about the move - which is that it apparently made him unhappy - not that we fought about it.
There's a difference between taking the high road and just rolling over for him. Maybe I'm wrong - but this seems like the time to stick up for myself a bit.
