Bravo for your friend! Why because he is saying what you need to say. She doesn't do anything? Then it is yours.

I was in pain waiting for him to decide. I was a crying mess that gave her power away. Now I hate having anyone try to control me. Ii don't want to be in pain, I change the situation until I can work it out.

You gave your power to her letting her decide both, actually your families future. When do you decide that your decisions are yours, independent of her and her playing the field?

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
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Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory