Old dog seeks new trick 9

[susana4]

I know I'm not Wonka or Starsky but you linked here so hope you don't mind me throwing my 2c in here.

I'm not a vet and I don't have kids but it really rubbed me the wrong way that you got your son involved and asked him not to tell your W. It was only a small thing but it seems wrong to me to ask him to keep a secret from her.

That's putting him in the middle, and I'd leave him out of the situation completely. This is between you and W.