Old dog seeks new trick 9

[gan]

Tough stuff, Old Dog. She's a WAW alright, but one who doesn't actually speak of leaving. That's what I am so puzzled about with your sitch.

What's this about previous girlfriend then? Did I miss something?

I'm not too sure how to respond (validate no doubt) but I guess there is a few things in there for you to take note of:
(1) Your anger is showing to her
(2) It seems you have verbally told her that you have changed (without showing this though your actions) - she's not buying it in other words
(3) Passive aggressiveness - is that something you need to work on?

There seems to be so much anger in you that I really think you need to take your time with this one. Regardless of whether you send a response or not (and I'm not sure that one is warranted), how about writing a reply here and we can help you with reframing?