Wife left me three weeks ago!

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I will be leaving soon to pick the kids Io for school. I'm leaving a little later today so that I just pick them up at the door without the awkward 10-15 minutes of sitting around in her parents' house until it's time to go. I'm going to be pleasant and upbeat (my wife has insisted on a few occasions this last week that when I've been upbeat and positive that I have a smug look on my face. She cant understand why I appear so happy) and not make conversation. Looking back, as much as I've have tried to step back in recent days, each positive action has been met with a negative one: I don't engage in conversation but I pick my wife up in the car, I plan to take the kids out but invite her too, I don't argue with her or answer back but then I take her mail to her. I have to be more focused from now on to completely cut out pursuing behaviour, no matter how small or inconsequential it may appear. That's what Im going to do from now on.