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Just when I come to grips my D chimes in. She just asked where my wedding ring is. I told her we're not married anymore. She started to cry and said "I told u not to give up. I want this to end w/y'all getting married and we'll all be together forever!". S hi! What can I say to that

This is after Sun where the XW got bent out of shape that a married lady at church was gonna show me how to do some things w/D' s hair. Stuff like that's very upsetting & she guesses she doesn't get a say. Really threw me off. Said I was sorry she was in such a bad mood and asked if something else was bothering her that she needed to talk about. She angrily said yeah but I'm not gonna discuss it w/you. Said take care then and walked off.Found out tonight when she called that she thought I was criticizing her job w/D' s hair. WTF?

She apologized for the "misunderstanding" & said we'll have a lot of these in the years to come & "we" can work through it. I just kept my mouth shut and listened. Said ok take care.

Funny thing is she must've bitched to her brother cause he told her of the exchange the lady & I had on FB when I posted a pic of botched braids. Tired of her years worth of wrong assumptions. Just goes to show that while I've really worked to change-her, not so much.