It's my wife's B-Day on Friday, she has zero family in town here. And it sounds like she has zero friends that want to hang out. My cousin (who I mentioned above) offered to go out to dinner with her, just to be nice so she doesn't spend her B-Day alone. Here is my situation.
1. Do I buy her a gift or a card? Or should I just get her one from the kids and call it a day?
2. Friday night, my friends and I are going to be out on the town. Should I invite her and my cousin with? My only issue is that she has been so hostile towards me, I don't want that to ruin my night. Nor could I handle it if she starts talking to other guys or god forbid invites someone alone.
3. Should I just leave it alone and let her sit at home after dinner by herself?
I am just really torn here. I love this woman and don't want her to hurt, but the other part of me is saying "let her be as lonely as I have been". What is your advice?
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016
