You notice sth? The more you discuss with her, the more things you do that are against DB, the faster she runs. Step back, take a breath and detach from her. Don't do any serious talk with her right now, it's only going to hurt you.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15