Masterpiece still in progress...

[Jer2911]

Royally messed up... Long story -- confided in a member of W's family and this family member told other family members which caused some problems for W this weekend. She confronted me about it today -- caught me by surprise (which she is good at) and I had not choice but to be honest about it.

This whole entire situation is so messed up -- everything -- everything!

I touched base with this family member afterwards and he gave me a diff story -- but at this point, given how many lies my W has woven, I'm more inclined to believe the family member... And if he is telling the truth then my W really is very messed up, needs a LOT of help, and deserves any negative consequences for her actions... And apparently, based on what she told me, there were some negative consequences this weekend in terms of interactions with some key family members (clearly they disapprove of what she has done and is doing to me and our kids). I won't even go into what this family member said about how my W acted over the weekend with the family... What he described doesn't surprise me (because I've seen it here repeatedly), but just... whatever... Glad someone else observed it.

Regardless of what is right or wrong in this entire situation -- me talking to any of her family members is a huge strike against me... Even though another one of her family members has said she would have done the same thing in my situation.

We did have some open conversation about OW today... They are planning for OW to visit -- but W made comment about only being able to see OW a few times each year...So really?! They are both looking forward to a future where they both live in separate countries and only see each a few times each year? C'mon! I know my W better than to believe she could be satisfied in a R like that... and I don't know many 25 year olds who would be satisfied with a R like that... But again... whatever...

Who is this person living in this house with me?