I thought everything was okay....(Part 4)

[MCS]

Today, I continue to realize how much W is trying to blame me with her problems even though I've been out of her life for 6 months.

So, D4 must have gotten sick last night. W sends me a message saying that she was sick and she was taking her to doctors. This was a good thing since the other week, she took S5 and never told me. Well, anyway, she asked in the email if I could pick up D4 at a gas station at 4pm. Here's my response verbatim:

"W,
No, I can't meet up prior to 5:15. Also, I would prefer not to do kids exchanges in parking lots.
--MCS"

Anyway I get a message later saying she dropped D4 at daycare and I could pick her up there. Well, why would you drop your sick kid at daycare at the end of the day ~1.5 hours before closing?

So, I called daycare to apologize about W dropping off sick kid. Daycare said it was no worry, they knew that was W decision and not mine. Also said that daycare told W that if D5 is sick, she should stay home the whole day so other kids don't get sick. Well, daycare told me at that point, W looked away and looked like she was going to start to cry and said "MCS has been really difficult today." I don't know if it was to try and get a reaction or probably just to deflect the blame.

So, daycare told me they knew that W was making things up and didn't believe her. so before, I would just go back and try to figure out where my communication went a stray to how she 'felt.' Today, I see it doesn't matter anything I say will be taking in the wrong context.