Thanks Toots. I'll take your word for it. Because it certainly doesn't feel like a plan. She claims no contact with OM. Though I cannot be 100% so I'm taking it on faith and well they work together so god only knows...
I've been realizing that one of my issues is my type A personality. I fix, I plan, I problem solve all of these are good qualities except in this situation. They've helped me be successful in the business world. But not in my marriage. I've come to see that I have to get me out of the way. Sit back and let her drive for a while. Not be reactionary nor reach over and grab the wheel if she seems to be veering toward the trees. I need to be patient and let things unfold.
Daily inspiration:
Though seasons change and seeds may start The beauty of a broken heart Cannot be seen but in full view The colors can come back to you
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Me 41 Wife 38 T20 M13 S8 D3 Bomb 1/26/15 A confirmed 2/19/15