Guys (ladies welcome to answer too): random question here. Earlier H accidentally stepped on my toe and I shouted in pain and he immediately scooped me up and held me. A few days ago I burned my hand while cooking and H ran at top speed into the kitchen and put his arms around my waist and gave me a big hug from behind while I put my hand under cold water. A similar thing happened last week when I poured boiling water on my foot (yeah, I'm clumsy sometimes). I assume it's the damsel in distress thing that makes him leap the touch barrier (he does touch me a lot, but this was in a different way).
But the weird thing is -- it's a 180 for him. He used to get *mad* at me when I burned myself and say it was my fault for not asking him to help. So why suddenly be nice?
There's probably no way to know, was just curious if there's some kind of male phenomenon at work here that I can learn about that's caused this 180 (I'm often clueless about these things and I've learned a lot so far about behaviour since starting to DB!). I don't recognise it from any of my reading.
Last edited by susana4; 03/03/1512:13 AM.
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
