We did until about a week ago. She came down with a bad sinus infection and that derailed any physical activity. She also told me last night that she does not want to have sex anymore. She said she enjoys it, but the sex is confusing her. She also said she is worried it is confusing me. I think she is 100% correct. It is confusing the hell out of me.
Sandi2, I spent a lot of time this weekend reading these boards. Specifically focusing on some of your posts regarding sex and sleeping in the same bed as the ex. Those posts made me realize that it is doing nothing to help our R. She doesn't have any respect for me and being physical with her will not build any respect. She is in an EA/PA with another person, she has checked out of this M.
My focus now is to be the best father I can be to my children, to work on what I have learned from DB and DR (and DB forums), and listen and practice the advice from my DB coaching. GAL has finally sunk into my thick head.
M:42 W:43 T:14 M:10 S:9 D:5 W filed 12/22/14 EA 12/31/14 PA 4/10/15 D final 5/13/15
