I don't post much on these boards, but your situation really hits home with me. I'm so frustrated right now with my WAW that I have been considering giving up. This past weekend was the most difficult weekend since I found out about her EA.
Catching up on your situation and reading the replies from Toots and 25years have inspired me to not give up. I am going to stay focused on DB, DR, and the advice from my DB coach. Giving up would be taking the easy way out. It would make things easier for my WAW (maybe even easier for me). I know I couldn't live with myself if I didn't try my hardest for this M and for my kids.
Thank you for posting.
M:42 W:43 T:14 M:10 S:9 D:5 W filed 12/22/14 EA 12/31/14 PA 4/10/15 D final 5/13/15