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Re: Rysinmans climb after WAW! RysinMn #2543799 03/02/15 06:07 PM
Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 786 T twinmom Member
twinmom Member T Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 786	I would tell her "you are more than welcome to stay here but in doing so please know I will NOT leave and you will be respectful of my boundaries while here" Like no OM here, no calling/texting OM in front of me. Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction

Re: Rysinmans climb after WAW! twinmom #2543801 03/02/15 06:16 PM
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Starsky309 Member S Joined: Oct 2010 Posts: 6,810 Florida	Originally Posted By: twinmom I would tell her "you are more than welcome to stay here but in doing so please know I will NOT leave and you will be respectful of my boundaries while here" Like no OM here, no calling/texting OM in front of me. x 2. M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07 At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)

Re: Rysinmans climb after WAW! Starsky309 #2543811 03/02/15 06:39 PM
Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 1,433 T Train Member
Train Member T Joined: Mar 2014 Posts: 1,433	x 3. M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014

Re: Rysinmans climb after WAW! Train #2543826 03/02/15 07:36 PM
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OP RysinMn Member R Joined: Jan 2015 Posts: 290 hawaii	ok thank you guys. RysingMan Me:31 W:29 T:8 M:4 D bomb: 10/2014 S 1/2015

Re: Rysinmans climb after WAW! Train #2543834 03/02/15 08:15 PM
Joined: Jan 2015 Posts: 290 hawaii R RysinMn OP Member
OP RysinMn Member R Joined: Jan 2015 Posts: 290 hawaii	you guys were right up my alley on thinking, i should not have to leave my house for her to spend time with our friend. I was thinking of maybe actually staying someplace a day or two and staying home the other days. I know it would help me but I don't know? RysingMan Me:31 W:29 T:8 M:4 D bomb: 10/2014 S 1/2015

Re: Rysinmans climb after WAW! DaddyLongShanks #2543843 03/02/15 08:45 PM
Joined: Oct 2014 Posts: 5,301 S Sotto Member
Sotto Member S Joined: Oct 2014 Posts: 5,301	I agree with DLS - your W moved out. She doesn't get to 'move back in' for a holiday because she wants to spend some time with her friend. If she wants to do some stuff with friend, they can meet up and do stuff... I would just let her know - No, that doesn't work for me W.... T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed) We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus

Re: Rysinmans climb after WAW! Sotto #2543846 03/02/15 08:49 PM
Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 2,257 D DaddyLongShanks Member
DaddyLongShanks Member D Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 2,257	Originally Posted By: Toots I agree with DLS - your W moved out. She doesn't get to 'move back in' for a holiday because she wants to spend some time with her friend. If she wants to do some stuff with friend, they can meet up and do stuff... I would just let her know - No, that doesn't work for me W.... Thanks. She would be using our member during that interaction and he's supposed to be a good boy and maintain the facade.

Re: Rysinmans climb after WAW! Sotto #2543859 03/02/15 09:32 PM
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OP RysinMn Member R Joined: Jan 2015 Posts: 290 hawaii	yowsa this is a sticky sitch! but i think i need to be honest and stand my ground. I know it will really make her angry but this was her decision. RysingMan Me:31 W:29 T:8 M:4 D bomb: 10/2014 S 1/2015

Re: Rysinmans climb after WAW! RysinMn #2543879 03/02/15 10:48 PM
Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 2,257 D DaddyLongShanks Member
DaddyLongShanks Member D Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 2,257	Originally Posted By: RysinMn yowsa this is a sticky sitch! but i think i need to be honest and stand my ground. I know it will really make her angry but this was her decision. Yeah, It's not really a big thing at all. You are doing the right thing!

Re: Rysinmans climb after WAW! DaddyLongShanks #2543896 03/03/15 12:12 AM
Joined: Jan 2015 Posts: 290 hawaii R RysinMn OP Member
OP RysinMn Member R Joined: Jan 2015 Posts: 290 hawaii	ok I appreciate the vote of confidence, Though I decided to let her go and find myself. I find it hard still at times to say no. Knowing she is just going to get pissy with me, and get more angry! Like a vicious circle. RysingMan Me:31 W:29 T:8 M:4 D bomb: 10/2014 S 1/2015

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