C, what's EFT? We are still doing MC, but I think you're talking something more specific?
Thanks for the concern. Honestly I feel kind of humbled out by my Hs changes. He asks if we can try conversations later when they get tense. He asks how I think what I've said might make him feel instead of attacking me. He has made a point of being a strong shoulder for me when I'm not doing well. Maybe I don't post about this aspect often enough. Weeks 1-2 he wasn't there, but has really made huge efforts at being cool and level. I think his ADs help a lot too.
I am not feeling spastic or drained as I was. Just cautious that this whole thing isn't feeling as fresh as I was hoping, and that's mostly on me as far as I can tell.
Wait. No, that's not true. The appeasement stuff, that's a big irk that isn't me.
I want to hear more about what you're suggesting tho.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
