Stood up for myself again this morning. Forwarded W the username/password for her flex medical spending account and left her EOBs at her spot at the table. Sent an email stating "The website will instruct you where/how to fax your EOBs for reimbursement."
As everyone would say here this morning, she fired me months ago. I had been taking care of this and all the rest of the financial stuff for the last decade. One piece at a time, I am giving it all back.
Me:39 W:33 Married 6/07 D6 Found out about affair 9/14