I had printed out that NC letter and had it in my back pocket. Sat down to talk to W about NC with OM. Didn't go well. She doesn't want to hear about me needing assurance of NC. She just wants to focus on her daughter's upcoming wedding. She wants space to find herself and enjoy this upcoming event. She says I'm just pressuring and nagging and trying to get my way for every possible angle.
For what it's worth, that's pretty much the angle my WAW took too...and you verbally committed to another 5 mos of limbo?