Here goes the million dollar question and I'm ready for the 2x4s .

The whole moving on thing .

Been on a few dates with an old friend and we have a great time but I feel myself holding back and I'm not sure why .

Is it because I've still got them impenetrable walls up or that I'm still hoping that W will realise what she has done and want to come back .

Is it to soon to be going on dates and maybe should I wait until everything is sorted with regards the house .

I'm just in a real dilemma at the moment and fearful of hurting other people .

Advise much appreciated .


Me 40
W 37
Together 22 years
S18
D12
WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months
W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life
After the 2 weeks she has left .