Fwiw, I think you need to have a vision for yourself, your kids are watching you and learning how to deal with adversity... Mine did, and they are at similar ages. They are looking to you to show them how to navigate life's rough spots.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm