Wife says she's out the door

[Sherman333]

Well yesterday went reasonably well. She did spend a bit on clothes though, but she needed them. Overall it was a good day and we had S 3 times last night. Today we're back to the BS.

First she popped a gasket on our foster son for putting a dirty dish into the clean dishes in the dishwasher. Somehow that became my fault. Then for the rest of the day, she was kinda shitty and picking at everything. We were supposed to meet at a house to drop off kids, I was 6 minutes late and all hell broke loose. She was mildly picking at me in front of the mom at the house and the lady even came to my defense.

Later when I came home from the home improvement store, she lets me know she's going to a party on 3/14. I asked her is that together or by herself. She told me she thought it was easier to go by herself, babysitters and whatnot. I told her if she wanted a babysitter, she could just let me know. This launched her into a tirade about how I can never handle anything, how horrible I am, etc. Great.

I'm seriously questioning how much I really want to fight for this vs. just let the next man enjoy her antics. It would be better for the kids.

We're supposed to go on a Disney trip soon. I just booked the rooms today (already had the plane booked last year). I'm seriously considering uninviting her. Just having the kids and I go. Probably be a lot more fun vs. going with a persons actively demonstrating anger/resentment.