Devotion To A Dream

[phunguy]

I'm sort of blown away right now. W and I were chatting about the upcoming week and she informed me that maybe a seperation would be better, she got upset and began crying and said divorce is so final. That she needs space and maybe in that space we could go to counseling. W said maybe she gets away and realizes how much she loves me, and though right now she doesn't see how we fix it but maybe she's wrong and maybe she gets some help too. This is all so confusing. She follows that with she doesn't know how she gets an apartment and how everything works during that sort of thing saying I won't let her get her own bank account I told her she can do whatever she wants that I don't care if she gets her own bank account. I don't understand why she thinks that. She said its a control thing, I told her it's bit overplayed at this point, I've not been in control of anything, she needs to stop and remember that she sent the last 7 months in control of everything.