She didn't respond but I know she read it. She's being civil and friendly & calling & texting me. I'm sticking to my plan and will do so for the next 5 months.

She was out all day today shopping for the wedding with her D27.

When she got home she was bushed and went to bed.

I'm doing the overnight at the RH tonight because my reg overnight staff will be doing this Sat night as I'll be playing a gig with my band. W is probably not coming to the gig. More shopping planned.

I'm going to Toronto for a business meeting on Wed overnight to Thurs. W asked if she could come. I said sure if she wanted. But I think she's just testing me. I should have said it wouldn't be a good idea - I'll be in meetings all day, but I'm not about to start excluding her. I know what that feels like, as she does it to me and I don't like it. No tit for tat.


M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014