Oh yeah. On the W neglecting kids point. I took big kids out put his morning for a few hrs while W had D1.5. On arrival back, D1.5 asleep with W holding her - does not appear woke lot has been done. Anyway, big kids ome up to W and she tells them to leave her alone she is sleeping. Later (after I fed kids), I ask W to check on Ds in other room - W accuses me of trying to control her. I try to explain that I am not trying to control - just that she has responsibility to watch kids and that I am not going to do everything (boundary w/o ramification). She says she is tired and will hire babysitter to watch kids (mind you older kids with me Saturday and then sleepover at granny's - so very little effort by W). Also tells me I should enjoy my time with family (guess meaning her too). I ask her whether it's the her constant bi@$hing or her expectation that I do everything around the house incl. watching kids or the fact that she is carrying on an A that she wants me to continue to enjoy. W says that D is coming soon. I ask her to elaborate, but no details forthcoming. I believe there are none. Another day in the life. I am trying to hide upstairs, but think I will head out ANYWHERE if the roads are ok. Wishing you and everyone on the DB community a safe and sane Sunday.
