We often get got up in what we pictured or hoped our ex spouse would be. It is learning to accept that this is not a real picture. Accepting what is instead of what could be. It may not be the way it could be or the way it should be it is what it is.

Letting go does not equal not caring. We only have control over ourselves and our own choices. We are all walking our own path and have lessons to learn. Some get stuck and keep repeating the same mistakes.

Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.