Devotion To A Dream

[phunguy]

I've basically been out of the house every evening since Wed. She is colder than ever. Has said virtually nothing to me. The tension last night was horrible. I tried to get her to break the silence and she brought up moving out. She said unless I would allow her to get her own bank account she wouldn't move out until the divorce was final. I told her that as I understood it any diversion of marital assets could be a problem. I told her again that I didn't have any information on how that worked for getting an apartment or have specific answers for her. That she could do whatever she wants.

I did talk to my dad who has been quiet lately. He told me to file and to get my head together. He said enough was enough and I needed to give her what she wants and stop torturing myself thinking it could be saved. He said he knows how I feel but said its time to confront her. That her inaction just shows how messed up her head is now.

Of course now I'm confused and I don't what I should do. I suppose I should get an attorney and file. It is what she wants.