Hi Vanilla,

Sorry your H isnt getting any better.

Question for you, and i mean this sincerely. Are you still standing or are you just trying to make things tolerable while you sell the house?

DB'g is about saving yourself first and i worry that despite your incredible GAL efforts, whether the in house seperation is doing you more harm. You know i had my own in house seperation difficulties but nothing like you have.

wishing you the very best


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress