Part 15 - a blue edz rising

[jim0987]

EVERYTHING Toots said (post #2543465)

Have you tried initiating about something none S related at all? just curious to the reaction.

I do genuinely think you need to find a way to be warmly absent for a little bit and a little less available, if only to see what happens.

I want to go and do, that thing that fires you up never seems to fire up in me so I try things but then "home" back again to the sofa.

Almost like a bit of me isn't on. For instance if I was asked to go to the pub I'd go and have a good time if not I wouldnt go. I dont know why this is but I recognise it.

There is a TED talk where the speaker talks about activation energy and it being a training and practice thing. She says a good way to start is to not let yourself snooze your alarm in the morning. when it goes off get up and do something (like your trunk exercises) to use that 20 minutes positively.

The issue is I dont really seem to know what I like, crowds disturb me immensely, small groups I enjoy. I'm not an outgoing sort as you say.

me too and it does make it difficult to do more.

These are all excuses

Yep. There is a Ted video (as always) by Till H. Grob who talks about this. Its called how to be more confident

Anyway have a good day