If anyone would have told me that I would have reached 10 threads I would have never believed them. Mainly because I felt my journey would have been over sooner and that I would be laid out and no longer standing.

I am still standing in an in house separation.

The house is on the market, and I have an agreed separation financial agreement with H which includes asset variation options.

I believe in GAL but H is complaining of being 'abandoned' that V is not a 'we' person and that she is too independent. I have been assessed as not codependent. H is a compulsive gambler who claims to have not gambled for 3 years. I am unsure., but this has created devastation in my life.

I love this board and the wonderful DB friends that she has made.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW