Toot Alors!

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Morning toots

Sunnier here today hoping it stays that way when I go out if I decide to swim today or leave it to tomorrow night haven't decided yet may have a day washing the car by hand or walking to the shops instead. Starting slow today.

Mmm on the area thing what are your plans for location (wow that sounds creepy hopefully you know what I mean!) E.g. are you planning on staying where you are now moving back to the original location (don't mean original house just area) or something else?

I only ask as thats a consideration for your way forward as it affects what h would have to want to do too. If youre happy where you are would he move to that area for example?

I was sort if talking about timing in my case I try to include the "this is not.." Statement or at least a version of it in conversations when w is either starting to discuss my moving on (car spaces, originally when I was starting to take care of myself again etc) so it it's more part of our conversation rather than me blurting (and boy can I blurt) it out at her which in some ways, from me, could sound like pleading. In your case you have worked hard on your detatchment and should be proud of where you have got to but if you want to open up the communications someone has to make the first moves there as you are in far less constant communication than say w and I (on the plus side thats a source of discombobulation for me right now!)

I resist saying excuse, but for what reason could you have a phone or email conversation? I'd invite vets opinions here on some sort of statement of standing?

Keep going toots I have no doubt no matter what happens and you choose you'll stand strong and be happy