Confused

[Joe46]

I have been getting lots of texts now about how I think she is a horrible person and it is all her fault. How everyone would be better with out her. And how I make her feel like a horrible person. I told her That I did not make her take this job. Actually I was not in favor of it. I told her that I was just saying I don't want to be a part of it anymore and that she had a choice, us or the job. It was up to her. I told her, that I would like to work on things, but this job is getting in the way. I told her that we have fought more in the past 10 months than we would have in 2 lifetimes. She can't seem to see all the problems it has caused. It is not like a normal job.

I just hate when I do stand my ground and very calmly state my boundary and than all hell breaks lose!! Why can't we just talk instead of I'm a horrible person, and everyone would be better off without me and I hate her and she's never good enough. I have never said anything like that. She even said " why couldn't you have been like this a few years ago". I am guessing she said that because I was very calm and confident about what I said. But I also acknowledged her and what she was saying. This is not something I did in the past. At least not like I should have.