Thanks, yeah this feeling definitely hurts, cause like you, Jim, not feelin 'safe' around me would be the last thing I would ever think of someone saying about me. As V says, I think she's stuck. I can see these feelings manifesting themselves since she kept A a secret for so long. I would think she probably constantly was wondering of i was catching on. I wonder if this is residual and is thawing a little since I confronted her. I haven't heard her say this for a while, but it was the MC that was applying a little bit of pressure for us to continue to talk outside of C when she said it.
Anyway, went out to an outing at a friends house with a bunch of people yesterday, which was fun. I emailed W because I forgot to pack snow boots for the kids and said non-descriptly that I was going out and would be in her area of she wanted me to drop them off. Trying to project some mystery on my status, but I don't think she's noticing or really even cares right now.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)