Cali, ditto to above posts. No way is this defeat. It's change, and over the past year, it looks to be changes for the better in a lot of ways. So many life lessons we are forced to learn, right?
Try to look at it this way. Our kids are our number one priority. Ya, it would be great, to have them grow up, parents and family in tact, that would be the ideal. However, would they learn how to fight for and protect something they love, would they learn that true unconditional love? Would you have the relationship and respect you have from him? We don't know. But at least you know that some good things are coming out of this, great things even!
I am looking forward to you getting settled in your place. I truly believe this move will bring some great comfort and peace for you.
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-