Additionally, we both took the "5 love languages" test and she scored highest in acts of service, which surprised me, but not her and I scored highest in words of affirmation which surprised her, but not me. We both got a good laugh and were curious about each other's results. We've been speaking the wrong LL to each other all these years. Going forward, I think this will be very helpful.
M: 8 years, together 9 M: 41 W: 32 D 4, S 6 ILYBINILWY 2/10/15 2/14/15-2/22/15 Left home 4/5/15 Suspect A, Initiated Sandi's advice from WW thread 4/19/15 W asked for D