Hey Luke, yep, I was going to comment on the defeat thing. Defeat happens when you try something and you lose.
That isnt what happened here. You could have tried and tried and freakin tried...you still couldnt "win" because it isnt in your hands.
Yea, I know, you are rolling your eyes. LOL! Too bad, so sad..I am gonna say what I want anyway...cuz I can.
I know its tough thinking about how she is with your son. Man, that's the thing that gets to us the most, isnt it? Our kids.
I'm sorry she isnt the kind of mother your son deserves right now.
He seems like an amazing kid with an incredible dad. You are showing him so much and so well. Things he will take with him into adulthood.... how to navigate through life's turmoils, how to show compassion, how to fight for family and for yourself, courage, strength, and honor. What gifts you have given him.
You honored your marriage. That matters, Luke. You acted with dignity...that matters, too.
Whatever happens in the future, know this..how you handled yourself during this will matter to him and to you.
