Newbie needs advice and encouragement

[Kramer]

Any thoughts from anyone? I am vacillating between extreme sadness and anger for what she has done. Every facet of my life is related to her. We did SO much together and now it has just evaporated like it never existed. Somebody who has known her for 4 months is doing the things that I should be doing. This is so unfair and heartbreaking. How can she not see the pain and destruction that she has caused? I see all these older couples holding hands and get so jealous and sad. I loved being married and do not want to be single!