So an update, the command contacted me and I agreed to just drop everything thing. They then sent her and cc me in the email stating they had talked to me and I am dropping the NC and since I am they are dropping the NC. So there it is. I have stepped aside. And she has what she has wanted. But at least I was not the one to start the talk of droping the NC. Even after her getting what she wanted she is still pissy at me lol. I came home and she was here. She completely avoided me, and told her/my friend she is still not happy. He was like WTF you just got everything you wanted. lol thank the Lord I am done. I have requested All friends and family to not talk or ask about her.
I really enjoyed myself lastnight, I tried 7 different bourbons. My favorite was red breast. Delish. Thanks everyone for you support.