Vdub,
I totally understand the frustration about the whole "choosing themselves" bit. It happened in my sitch too. Also my XW and I got together when she was young too. It has a lot to do w/the whole movie/romance novel "love" that is peddled to women and it makes those not grounded in reality susceptible to it. It's a perfect storm. They look around and say, I'm not getting what I want so it must be H' s fault. Make no mistake, we all do our part to make it a attractive option, but in most cases it's really not about us. So there is nothing you can do FOR HER! But you can do something FOR YOU-be the best person you can be, cause it's the right thing to do anyways.

Praying for you!

Last edited by bravo61; 02/28/15 11:19 PM.
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Bomb 6/3/14
Papers del 10/3/14
D final 12/5/14

I wish I could love you and make you believe it
'Cause that's all you ever wanted
From me