Don't look upon it as defeat. What you are accepting is that what you were doing was not working. If you kept doing it expecting a different result, then we would all be worried about you. This is a change of tactics and an acceptance that what was is in the past. What will be is up to you now. If you want someone then you will find someone, maybe even your old wife. If you don't want anyone, that is fine too.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"