[BrightFuture]

Decided to split this into the second post. Sorry for the long posts. The H “sightseeing” is only happens like 2-3 time a year.

So, here is what I observed and learnt:

- H didn’t drive by himself, came here with some people (probably a couple of his friends from vacation home). This is unusual, because H always wanted to be in control of him moving around places and not being dependent on other people. It is like he knew I was going to ask him to pick up more of his stuff (chests).

- I think he is staying at his brother’s though.

- The tax thing was just an excuse (not sure for what though)

- He arranged to meet with my other BIL yesterday (sister’s H.) Wanted to connect? Catch up on the family stuff? Test the waters? (I’m going over to my sister’s for dinner tonight, maybe I will learn something.)

- Apparently he is doing something with his brother. Connecting? Catching up? Not sure what happened with BIL’s GF. Not sure if she is still in the picture. If she is, then this is kind of remarkable, because it’s been a long time since H and his brother did something together, like a guy things, you know.

- He brought his brother in with him to my house. I guess he is not hiding anymore about some affairs that we still have together, like the car insurance, taxes. I thought he didn’t want anybody to know about that kind of stuff. I could have been wrong all along. Also, was he trying to avoid a possible talk?

- H thought yet about something else to pick from the house (cassette tapes), LOL.

- He didn’t bring any of the D or separation subjects. Talked about car insurance and other stuff like business as usual.

So, something to digest. I’m looking at it from the outside observer point of view. Just observing the behavior. I’m glad he stopped by today and didn’t drug it through the weekend. I can enjoy the rest of my weekend without warring about when I would need to be home for him to come over.