Crazy random idea for you - change of scenery for you both - perhaps a weekend away invite? Things have been flirty and friendly enough with you guys. Especially after the separate space you're enjoying, I wonder if getting out of the house (old environment, old struggles, old dynamics and feelings) might do you both good if you think it wouldn't scare anybody to commit to a long date like that? I wonder if you kept the invite light and just let him know you'd enjoy his company.
What do you think?
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
